For parents · Signs, causes, and what to try first

Is my child struggling
with maths?

Most children who are struggling do not say so. It shows up as avoidance long before it shows up in a mark — homework left until last, answers rubbed out before they are finished, a shrug and "I'm just bad at maths". This page is about reading those signs, and about four things worth trying before you spend anything.

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Struggling looks like avoidance,
not like difficulty

A child who finds a subject hard rarely announces it. Saying "I don't understand" in front of a class of thirty costs something, and by about the age of eight most children have worked out that it is cheaper to look bored than to look lost.

So the signal is behavioural before it is academic. The maths book comes out last. Answers get written and rubbed out and written again. A question gets a guess rather than working. And the sentence "I'm just bad at maths" arrives — which sounds like a statement about ability, and is almost always a statement about one specific step that went past too quickly.

None of this means something is wrong. Children find things hard; that is what learning is. What matters is whether the difficulty is moving — whether last month's confusion has been resolved or has quietly become this month's foundation.

Six signs worth noticing,
none of them a diagnosis

Any one of these on its own means very little. Several of them together, over a term rather than a week, is worth acting on.

Homework is always last

Not that it is refused — that it is delayed. Maths reliably reaching the bottom of the pile is avoidance, and avoidance is what difficulty looks like from the outside.

Erasing before finishing

Rubbing out an answer that was never completed usually means the working stopped making sense partway through, and starting again felt safer than being wrong.

Fine with you, lost alone

If your presence at the table is what makes it work, they may be following your prompts rather than the method. Try asking them to explain a finished question back to you.

Guessing rather than working

An answer with no working underneath it is a coin toss dressed as confidence. It is also the fastest sign to spot on a homework page.

One topic, not everything

Marks slipping in fractions or algebra while the rest holds up points at a specific missing step, which is good news — specific gaps close quickly once they are found.

The sentence about themselves

"I'm bad at maths" is the sign worth taking most seriously, because it has stopped being about a topic and started being about them. It is also the one that hardens if it is left.

One missed step,
then everything after it

Maths is unusually unforgiving about order. A child who misses the lesson where fractions stop being pictures of pizza and start being numbers you can operate on does not just lose that lesson — they lose every lesson built on top of it.

The hero of this page shows the most common example there is. A child adds 3/4 and 1/6 by adding the tops and adding the bottoms, and gets 4/10. It is not carelessness and it is not a lack of ability. It is a completely reasonable rule applied in the wrong place, and it will keep producing wrong answers until somebody stops at that exact line and rebuilds it.

A class of thirty cannot usually stop there. The syllabus moves on, the marks slip, and within a term or two the child has an explanation for the marks that is about themselves rather than about fractions. That is the point at which a specific, fixable gap becomes a belief — and beliefs take much longer to shift than fractions do.

By the time it sounds like a statement about ability, it is usually still a statement about one afternoon in Year 5.

Why we go backwards before forwards

Four things to try
this week

All free, all doable at a kitchen table, and all more useful than a general conversation about effort. Do these before hiring anyone — including us.

You are not trying to teach the topic. You are trying to find the line where it stopped making sense.

What you are actually looking for
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🗣️

Ask them to teach you one question

Pick something they got right. Ask them to explain it as if you had never seen it. Explaining is where a shaky method falls over, and it does so gently — nobody is being tested.

ii
📓

Look at last term's book, not this week's

Find the page where the ticks thinned out. The gap is almost never in the topic causing trouble now; it is in the one that topic was built on.

iii
✉️

Ask the teacher one specific question

Not "how is she doing" — that gets you a reassuring answer. Ask: which topic is she finding hardest, and where did it start? Teachers usually know precisely, and are rarely asked.

iv
🔁

Retire one sentence

"I was never any good at maths either." It is meant kindly and it lands as permission to stop trying. Swap it for "this bit is hard, let's find where it went wrong" — which is also, usefully, true.

When a tutor is not the answer

Sometimes the maths is not the problem. If a child is struggling across every subject rather than one, if there has been a disruption at home or a change of school, or if the difficulty appeared suddenly in a child who was fine last year, more maths lessons are unlikely to be the thing that helps.

If the difficulty has been persistent for years, is severe, and has not shifted despite consistent support at school and at home, that is a conversation for your child's school and, if they suggest it, a specialist assessment. Specific learning differences such as dyscalculia are real, they are assessed by qualified professionals, and no tutor — us included — can diagnose one. What a tutor can do is work alongside that support, not replace it.

And sometimes a child is doing fine and a parent is worried. That happens often, it is a reasonable thing to check, and finding out that nothing is wrong is a perfectly good outcome. We will tell you if we think that is what we have found.

What the free first class
is actually for

It is not a sales call and it is not a general chat about goals. It is a full 55-minute lesson in which a teacher does deliberately what is difficult to do at a kitchen table: start slightly above where your child currently is, and work backwards question by question until the ground is solid.

That is why it is a real lesson rather than an assessment form. You find the missing step by watching someone work, not by asking them what they find hard — most children genuinely do not know, because the step they missed is the one they do not know is there.

Afterwards we tell you what we found, in plain terms, including if we think tutoring is not what your child needs. No card is required at any point in this, and there is nothing to cancel afterwards.

Most children cannot tell you which step they missed. That is rather the definition of having missed it.

Why we look rather than ask

Your school's curriculum,
not a general one

A child who is already behind does not need a second syllabus running alongside the first. We teach to whichever curriculum their school actually follows.

United States

Common Core and state standards, K–12

$13.50 a class
United Kingdom

National Curriculum, KS1–KS4 and GCSE

£11 a class
Canada

Your province's curriculum, grades 1–12

C$17.50 a class
Australia

Australian Curriculum v9.0 and your state's syllabus

A$16 a class
New Zealand

NZ Curriculum phases and NCEA, Years 1–13

NZ$19.50 a class

Pick your market for the curriculum detail and local pricing that apply to your child.

How do I know if my child needs a tutor?
Look for avoidance rather than difficulty: homework left until last, answers erased before they are finished, guessing instead of working, and the sentence "I'm just bad at maths". One of those over a week means little. Several over a term is worth acting on — starting with the four free steps above.
My child says they are bad at maths. Is that true?
Almost never as a statement about ability. It is usually a statement about a specific step that went past too quickly, followed by a term or two of everything built on top of it not working. The belief is the thing that hardens, which is why it is worth addressing sooner rather than after another year of it.
Should I help with homework myself?
Helping is good; doing it alongside them can hide the problem. A useful test is to ask them to explain a question they got right, as if you had never seen it. If the explanation falls apart, the method was yours rather than theirs — which is worth knowing and is nobody's fault.
My child is fine in class but panics in tests. Is that the same thing?
Not quite. Difficulty under time pressure with material they can otherwise do points at exam technique and anxiety rather than a knowledge gap, and it responds to different work — timed practice, and rehearsing what to do when a question looks unfamiliar. Worth naming it accurately, because tutoring the content will not touch it.
Could it be dyscalculia?
It might be, and that is not a question a tutoring service can answer. If the difficulty has been persistent for years, is severe, and has not moved despite consistent support, speak to your child's school about a specialist assessment. A tutor can work alongside that; nobody should be diagnosing it.
How quickly do gaps close once they are found?
Specific gaps often close quickly — a single missing step can be rebuilt in a few lessons. Confidence takes longer than the maths does, because it was built over a longer period. We would rather say that plainly than promise a timeline we cannot know.
What if we try a class and decide against it?
Then you have had a free 55-minute lesson and an honest read on where your child is, and you owe nothing. No card is taken to book it, so there is nothing to cancel.

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